Day One

For God is my witness, whom I serve in my spirit in the gospel of his Son, how unceasingly I make mention of you, always in my prayers. (ROM 1:9).

God Speaks to you in His Word!

For the next 30 days I want to help you achieve greater sexual self-control and management, spiritual renewal, and greater resolution of your SSA (same-sex attraction) dilemma. For each day there is a:
(1) Bible passage for your self-reflection in which God speaks to you. Ask, "What is my Father God, in the Lord Jesus, saying to me personally in this passage through the Holy Spirit?"
(2) There is a helpful Reflection, insight or understanding, and
(3) There is an Action to take which will enable you to grow in some way.

(1) Bible Passage

(2) Reflection

On this first day I'd like you to decide to pursue the goal of complete sexual abstinance during these next 30 days.
Complete abstinance means none of these behaviors:
1) No Visual Indulgence which refers to lustful watching or looking in a preoccupied and indulgent way. If it does begin, you will attempt to stop as soon as you can.
2) No Masturbation which refers to genital self-stimulation to orgasm. If it does begin, you will attempt to stop as soon as you can.
3) No Homoerotic fantasy which refers to using the mind or imagination to indulge homoerotic fantasy, images or preoccupations. If it does begin, you will attempt to stop as soon as you can.
4) No Emotionally dependent relationships with a SS person. If it does begin, you will attempt to stop as soon as you can.
5) Appropriate sex with one's spouse only, or no sexual activity at all if you are single.

(3) ACTION
This is the Action section for today.

a. In your journal write out your Bible Passage reflection.
b. Journal your thoughts and feelings about making a complete sexual abstinance for 30 days.
c. View and enjoy this video: